There are dates in a marriage that you don't want to forget about...like your anniversary, the date you met, the date of your first kiss, the dates you have had children....etc.....
but what about those {dates} that you used to go on before you had children
(3...almost 4 in my case)
I mean, those are important too...right?!
It can be so hard to balance life with your families and children, that you often forget about taking time to go on dates...just the two of you.
{Please don't tell me I am the only one in this boat}
My husband and I rarely have time to ourselves, unless it is after the kids go to bed, and then I am getting tired and ready for bed shortly after.
{lets face it, days get long and after work, I just want to relax and then 'hit the hay'}
I need those dates with just the two of us. Time to remember things that you love about your spouse and be able to talk without interruptions and be able to talk about things that aren't kid related.
{even though you end up talking about the kids half the time anyway}
Time to hold hands and look them right in the eyes when they are talking. Time to act like you have that 'puppy love' all over again.
When we do get out for a date night, it usually ends up being with friends. We hit up a movie and get some dinner, to catch up with friends. We get to talk with adults, which is nice, but it isn't 'alone' time.
You just need that now and then.
I think it helps for a great marriage. Communication is key and there isn't always a ton of communication time when the kids are around and always wanting your attention.
{I wouldn't trade my kids for the world, but getting a word in edgewise with 3 kids can be difficult}
Marriages are like a second job, they take work, but are well worth it! They take two people giving a 50/50 effort. They take communication, patience, honesty, faithfulness, understanding and LOVE!
I don't know about you ladies, but I am in dire need of a date night. I need some hubby time with no kids...some us time!
Here's my questions for you...
How do you ladies work date nights?!
How many 'date nights' do you go on a month?